It can be hard to figure out if he still has feelings for you – or if he really doesn’t like you anymore. When two people break up, it’s almost a guarantee that they’ll both still have feelings for each other – they just don’t want to be in a relationship anymore.
If you’re wondering whether , I’m going to give you the signs that he does. Even if he still has strong feelings for you, he still might not want to get back together with you.
That’s because in the period immediately following a breakup, confusion is at an all time high. Prove to yourself that you don’t need him to survive – that you’re perfectly fine on your own.
You’re most liable to do and say things that you’re going to regret later – and contact with your ex is only going to make the situation worse. Not only does it give you desperately needed time to get over him…
You know what he’d be doing if he was truly over you? People who are hurting lash out in tons of different ways – but it all stems from the unresolved feelings they’ve got inside. Nothing good can come from engaging with his negative emotions – and he’ll probably draw you into his negativity as well. So give him the space to get over his negativity, and eventually he’ll come around.
So he’ll pull crap like sending you drunk texts one night – but then ignoring your texts for the next week.He’s confused about you – what he thinks, what he wants, and most importantly, what he feels about you (2). Is he posting stuff on Facebook because he knows it’ll touch a nerve?His brain and his heart might be fighting a battle – where his heart wants you back and his brain tells him it’s a bad idea. By engaging with him and calling him out for being confusing, you’re giving him the upper hand. Is he out of control flirting – but only when you’re around?So the best thing to do is to tell him you don’t want to talk, text, or contact him after the breakup, and ask that he respects your wishes. it also gives you a ton of perspective on the relationship, him, and why you guys broke up.Perspective that you wouldn’t have gotten if you had been talking to him, and letting him send memories of the relationship runninng through your head again.
Let him realize the next day that he’s revealed he’s still into you – and he’s not sure whether you’re still into him.